Welcome to the Married4Life Movement

The Power of Community

Community Fuels the Fire: Togetherness Sustains Our Marriages

God has uniquely gifted each of us, not solely for our own benefit, but to serve others within the body of Christ. As members of this body, we are called to share in each other’s burdens, lifting each other up and supporting one another through the challenges of life and marriage.

“Share each other’s burdens, and in this way obey the law of Christ.”
— Galatians 6:2 (NLT)

In the same way that our physical bodies have many parts, each with a special function, the body of Christ is made up of individuals who belong to each other. We thrive not in isolation, but in community, where we can encourage, inspire, and strengthen one another.

“Just as our bodies have many parts and each part has a special function, so it is with Christ’s body. We are many parts of one body, and we all belong to each other.”
— Romans 12:4-5 (NLT)

One of the best ways to gain wisdom in your marriage is to seek the counsel and experience of those who have walked similar paths before you. In community, we win by honoring others, by supporting them through the highs and lows, and by learning from each other’s journeys. We weren’t designed to walk this faith journey alone. Just as coals stacked together burn with a strong, lasting flame, our marriages are stronger when surrounded by a supportive community. When we isolate ourselves, the flame of connection, passion, and growth can easily fade. But in community, that flame stays alive, fed by the love, guidance, and wisdom of others.

“Listen to advice and accept discipline, and at the end you will be counted among the wise.”
— Proverbs 19:20 (NIV)

Our marriages are at their best when we’re partnered in community. Let’s keep the flame burning—together.                     

What They Are Saying

David & Denise DeLuz

Together since 1995 and married in July 1999, we recently celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary, a milestone that fills our hearts with gratitude. Meeting in Sacramento was the start of start of what has developed into a beautiful journey. Being part of Intentionally Yours (IY) and the Married4Life Movement since its inception has truly been a blessing in our lives.

While we participated in other marriage groups before, IY has been uniquely transformative. Through this community, we’ve grown together, learning the vital lessons of listening, submitting, loving, and engaging as a united couple. It’s taught us to be “intentional” in our marriage, focusing on each other’s needs rather than our own.

The impact of IY is profound, reminding us that we’re not alone in our struggles. Whether couples have 25 years like us or are just starting out, we all learn and grow together. The practical topics like sex in marriage, blended families, and handling money God’s way, have sparked deep conversations and strengthened our bond.

We recommend the Married4Life Movement to every couple. It’s a beautiful reminder that God is at the center of our marriage, while offering real-world advice that aligns with His vision. Knowing you’re not alone in your challenges helps couples navigate the tough times and cherish the good ones even more.

Steven & Hollie Ankney

We have been married for a bit over 1 year, together for 3.5 years. We joined intentionally yours when we were engaged and we are so thankful that we did. Having strong, seasoned, and diverse couples around us has been life changing. 

During multiple sessions couples have shared how they have gone through trials together and what changes they have made to their daily habits to keep those issues from popping back up (or how they got through them). One big action that was brought up was how a couple did a devotional together every morning. From that discussion we decided to start praying together and reading the Bible together every morning before work. This has transformed our marriage and our individual lives. I don’t know if we would have ever started doing this if it wasn’t for couples sharing how similar actions have helped them.

We don’t say ”life-changing” half heartedly. We fully mean it. There is no other way to describe the impact The Married4Life Movement has had on our lives. You can stop looking for the solution, this is it, you’ve found it.

Lando & Carrie Matthews

We are happy to announce that we have been married 25 years! We have three daughters and 8 grandchildren. The Lord has brought us through parenting, addiction, running a business, ministry, school, and life. Three years ago, we approached a breaking point in our marriage and realized that it was time for a major change in order to move forward. We recognized the need to become more intentional about our marriage.

Cloyce and Sheila invited us to attend a marriage group meeting at their home. We were not sure what to expect but were excited about the possibility of connecting with like-minded couples. What an amazing experience! We were surrounded by couples who were experiencing similar struggles and were focused on strengthening their relationships. We received tools and tips that helped us to connect on a personal and spiritual level. The lessons discussed at the monthly meetings are thoughtful and relevant. The group provided an opportunity for us to establish new relationships in a fun and safe environment.

 As we began our journey, we started implementing activities such as reading a daily devotional together from the bible app. This activity created a space for us to talk and share our feelings about the devotional and how it relates to our marriage. This has become a daily habit for us and continues during vacations. We have become more intentional about carving out protected time for each other. Our marriage has become stronger, and we have regained our friendship. After a quarter of a century together, we have found that there is still room for growth. We treasure our Married4Life family! If you are ready to put in the work to make your marriage thrive, we highly recommend the Married4Life Movement!

Sterling & Danielle Royal

We are Sterling and Danielle and we’ve been married for 5 years. We joined Intentionally Yours because we knew we couldn’t do marriage alone. We needed God, His word, and guidance from the spirit every day, but we also desired to surround ourselves with other couples who wanted healthy thriving marriages built on His word.

Each time we gather creates a memorable night of sharing and growing closer to each other and the Lord because we realize we are not alone in the things we struggle with. We leave gatherings learning more about how to help each other and the couples around us. It’s a safe place we feel we can be vulnerable and ourselves.

The married4life movement helps us grow stronger together and ultimately help other couples do the same. It’s a game changer!

Michael & Tanz Martin

We are Michael and Tanzania Martin. We have been married for almost four years and have been apart of Intentionally Yours for over 5 years.

Since we joined Intentionally Yours, our marriage has become so much stronger and more meaningful than ever before. We used to struggle with communication, but hearing other couples share their experiences gave us the tools to communicate openly, honestly, while actively listening to one another.

This has done wonders for our relationship, and our spiritual connection is much stronger.

We would without a doubt recommend the Married4Life Movement to any couple looking to strengthen their relationship and experience the power of learning from shared experiences through amazing fellowship.

Justin & Karla Brown

My wife and I met in 2019, and it was love at first sight. From the start, we realized we shared common values centered on faith, family, and a deep commitment to personal growth. After two years of dating, we got married, eager to build a life together rooted in these beliefs. Having both experienced failed relationships in the past, we knew the importance of fostering a strong, healthy marriage.

With three children between us, creating a harmonious blended family became one of our top priorities. We knew it wouldn’t be easy, but we were determined to make it work. That’s when we joined Intentionally Yours, a marriage group that enabled us to grow alongside like-minded couples. One key lesson from the group on blended families really resonated with us. It provided the guidance and reassurance we needed, showing us that we weren’t alone in facing family challenges.

We also learned the importance of being intentional in the way we love each other. By incorporating these lessons into our daily lives, we’ve seen tremendous growth in our family. We’ve learned to communicate better, support each other more fully, and lean on our faith during tough times. We are deeply grateful for the support and encouragement from our community, and we thank God every day for His blessings.

Greg & Nguyet Peeplez

We are Greg and Nguyet Peeplez. We have been together for 7 years and married for 2 years. We were invited to Intentionally Yours while attending a premarital class to confirm marriage as the right path for us. We both came from a divorced background, and it was important for us to intentionally do everything right this second time around. We officially joined IY shortly after marriage. Our fellowship from this community has fueled our marriage beyond what words can explain.

Every group session we have attended has been nothing short of amazing! Our group sessions always bring fresh new insights that continues to inspire couples like us. We discuss many topics of marriage that ARE interesting and enriching to both newlyweds and tenured couples. There has been a noticeable improvement in our everyday interactions together. The lessons that we have taken away from each of these sessions helps strengthen our relationship. There is no storm we could not weather together, and every obstacle is just an opportunity for us to bond that much closer in order to overcome. We utilize the resources from these sessions for ourselves as well as for sharing with others. Our goal is to encourage other couples to build a solid foundation for their relationship that would be sure to last a lifetime. These experiences have been transformative for our lives. Through them, we have successfully created unity, trust, and the deepest devotion with one another.

We highly recommend the Married4Life Movement to any engaged or married couple. We are so grateful for everyone in our marriage group and truly honored to be a part of it. Getting to witness true love from couples who cares deeply and loves unconditionally has been truly inspiring for us. This has changed our lives for the better.

Ernie & Ronna Cason
Married Into Crazy

We’ve been married for 27 years, and even with all our experience and our own marriage ministry, the Married4Life Movement has added amazing value to our relationship. Cloyce, Sheila, and all the other couples involved have truly enriched our marriage. We look forward to coming together with other like-minded couples, because being around people who genuinely love and want to grow in their marriages makes all the difference. Whether you're working on communication, moving from good to great, or even from great to phenomenal, that's what we experience with the Married4Life Movement. Every time we participate, we learn something new, not just from the teachings but from the interactions with other couples.

It's not only about spiritual growth—though that's important—it's also about having fun! We laugh, we connect, and we grow together. If you have the chance to get involved, we highly encourage it. Trust us, it’s an experience you don’t want to miss!